It's what you're good at.

I love being a fan. It's kind of my thing; to enthusiastically support someone or something. I am a fan of several comedians, actors, shows, and teams. But most of all, I love being a fan of bands. It is never just about liking the music. It is the sensation from learning the lyrics, belting the words in my car, and cheering loud at shows. You know the feeling!

Last weekend I was out at a show doing what fans do best. As the music played, I looked up at the singer and thought, "Wow, am I really related to this remarkably talented person?" Yep, I was at The Dead Hearts' show. My brother, B, just happens to be the lead singer and guitar player. The band is made up of a great group of men who excel in their craft. It is not difficult to love them or their captivating sound. B's musical ingenuity never ceases to impress me. For example, I cannot wrap my head around how he is able to play guitar and a harmonica at the same time. It should not be possible in real life, yet he manages to make it look easy.

I'll admit, in the past I have been insanely jealous of B's talent. When I meet his friends I often get asked if I sing or play too. My response is usually something along the lines of, "No, he used up all the musical-genius genes before I could be made." (Which usually gets me a weird look; yet I still use it every single time).

Envying my older brother is sibling rivalry at its finest. Which put simply, is just silly. As we've grown older, it has dawned on me that life is more enjoyable when I stop comparing myself to my siblings. We are shockingly alike and yet, each our own individual. I may never master an instrument or be able to write profound lyrics, but I sure can appreciate people who do. After all, one of my greatest skills (and hobbies) is being a candid fan.

I am genuinely glad we can't all sing, write, tap dance, hit home runs, paint masterpieces, teach, or perform intricate surgeries. Being humbled from time to time is a good thing. It's how we are reminded everyone is uniquely gifted. Our strengths cross and interweave to support one another. Do you know what your talents are? Find something you love, and run with it. You will be one step closer to truly loving the person God made you to be.

-KP

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